I like apples, you like pears...

Some of you may or may not know that I am into bondage. In fact in 2001 (years before I did porn) I was elected Mr. Leather Norway (my previous home) and subsequently went to compete for the Mr.Leather Europe in Stuttgart and ended up third place, losing to Germany 2nd and Italy 1st (or was it Mr. Spain?). I cannot remember. I also done bondage movies for Tom Ropes McGurk's Grapik Art SF based company. If you into bdsm and interested, you can find the dvd's on his website (google them). The titles are: The Woodshed 4, No Way Out and Muscle Butt. Anyways here are a few pictures that I took while having a nice afternoon in Orange County last week. Hope u can appreciate them.And if u do not like them, then go have some pears. Happy sunday!

Dear Mario

I get a fair amount of e-mails every week, but sometimes one stands apart in a way that I feel the need to share it. This particular one I decided to post cause I have been asked this very same question several times, so without posting the name or e-mail of the person who sent it, here it is:


Hello Mario.
Hope I am not over-stepping my boundaries by emailing you. I have subscribed to your blog and have realized that you are known or self-proclaimed "America's top bottom". I am not very fond of being the bottom during intercourse. In fact, at times I detest it. But I have been in a relationship for about 2 years, and I have bottomed for this guy before. Problem is that I feel like it gets harder and harder for me to do it as time goes by. I was usually a top, but since we've been together I have tried to be more versatile. What makes it so hard is that he is huge. No other word to use but huge. VERY thick, and long..its the thickness that makes it so hard. So I was wondering if you could give me some tips on how to make it easier for me to take it..and I guess that would make it more pleasureable for him. When it happens its great, but the process is ridiculous. Hopefully you can help, and if not thank you for your time anyway. Sorry If I am being a bother. lol.

Thanks.

X


My Answer:

Dear X: Thanks for subscribing to my blog. I am not self proclaimed "America's Top Bottom". Its an award that I won in 2008 and it was given to me by the "Blatino Erotica Awards" as recognition for my work in the industry.

As far as tips for bottoming, the key is simply being relaxed, it is a muscle after all. Also u need to be turned on about what you are doing, otherwise it will not be very pleasant. Perhaps you just do not like to bottom? Not everybody likes it. For me I like it because it makes me feel that I am giving my man the most intimate thing a guy could give to another: my hole. To know that I am taking it for my man's pleasure, turns me on and to know that he can come cos he is so turned on by anally intruding me :0) ITS HOT. So first of all: be into what ur doing, secondly to relax you could drink a glass of wine (tho is hotter if ur sober and with your 5 senses functioning). Also some people like to use poppers (not me). But perhaps your partner could start by giving u a massage and eating your ass, that way you will be relaxed and hopefully very into it, once he tries to go into you ;0) Hope this helps!

Picture from backstage Fresh Xmas Edition '09

Can't wait to dance at Fresh again!

Jockstrap

Hey guys took this pictures yesterday. Hope u like. Have a great weekend.

Boybar Picture

This picture is from when I danced at Boybar in december.

Enter 2010

Just wanted to wish all my readers a happy 2010. Here are a few new pics. First one was taken by my friend John on Malibu saturday and I took the other ones for you last night;) I hope u enjoy. You can catch me dancing next saturday at MJ's.

Thanks for reading and caring. I been blogging since august 2005 and never thought when I started I would have an audience. May 2010 be a great year for all of you! Those are my sincere wishes

Love

Mario xoxo

Short Video of me dancing at Fresh

SO much fun as usual! Can't wait to work Fresh again! My favorite event! Thanks to Mike (Mike Global-sf on Facebook) for the video!